You know a little support wouldn't kill you
Just to show that you care
A simple phone call now every now and then
Just to show that you are there
I know that things are different
I know that things have changed
But I am still you're friend
I am still the same
Yes I can't get drunk right now
I can't ride myself off and get high
But I never thought that would matter
I didn't think it would change you and I
If I didn't know any better
I would think that you think I'm dead
You'd think that you would be there for me
But you have left me alone instead
I am not overreacting
Yes I know how emotional I can be
But it doesn't take a genius
To see that things have changed between you and me
Just because I am pregnant
Doesn't mean I can't do the things I used to do
I can still be fun!!!!!
I can still hang out with you
If I had of known for the start
That we needed booze for our friendship to stay strong
I really wouldn't haven't bothered
Staying friends with ANY of you for so long
I know that things are different
I know that things have changed
But I am still you're friend
I am still the same
Author notes
Just a little venting as I am a wee bit emotional about how some of my friends are treating me since I got pregnant.
Written June 22nd, 2006
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Wonderful
Well, you got your feelings across very well in this piece. Another brilliant piece of writing here. I loved this. I loved the flow and effortless way the words formed.
Brilliant. Keep writing and don't stop. Cannot applaud as I do not have enough points, but well done for this. -
love love love love it.
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wow, very good. i love ur poetry, even tho this is only the second i've read so far. lol.
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Wow this was truly amazing and i can say i know how you feel been there and yep thats all they want u for someone to get drunk with or high in the end dose not matter how long u know the person for in the ned if u quit they just froget u like u don't fit in there life anymore. so sad but true and you wrote this just perfect easy to read great flow amazing write mara.
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Outstanding
This poem has a lot of raw power and so much truth - we all need our friends to be true to us, not because we are convenient to them but because they like us as people. It is an important difference. I like the easy rhyme pattern and the emotion in this poem. -
Look at those wonderfull moments awaiting you at the next step and forget those people ........ they're not friends
love
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This is a nice personal piece and nothing wrong with the writing. I have too found myself in similar situations with friends that once you stop partying there is just nothing left, as you never existed. I want to tell you these were never your friends to begin with. Friends often draw you down and you should take this time to spend with your partner and enjoying your pregnancy as everything will change once baby arrives. Your friends and priorities may never be the same again. Be strong and all the best of luck. Hugs Ami
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It is difficult to have substance abusers as friends. Maybe someday one or more of them may decide to give up alcohol and then you can help them. Until then I'm afraid you will just have to write them off. It would obviously be a big mistake to drink in order to hang out with them.
I used to have some friends who were substance abusers. I wrote about how messed up they were. That is all they were good for, someone to write about. -
you're should be your.
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hey hunni, if this is ur friends u r talking about and all then that aint cool and yeah i know this is easy for me to say but if they cant except u for who u are and what is going on now then they are not worth it. but good write keep on writting it is good to get ur feelings out in the open. cant wait to read another one of ur poems hunni! by the way hunni im always here for you love always ur friend tash xox
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beautiful!
a great write, so full of sadness and sorrow! hey, you don't need those "friends" of yours!! If they were true, they would be there for you now instead of ignoring you!!
but hey, don't worry! Things will get better soon; there is always day after night! Just hang on in there! 
a beautiful write..I was almost in tears by the end of it!! great work! 
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aww dont worry. You're better off without those slappers! Who would want their children around them?! They're bitches so fuck em! You know that their attitude towards you changed coz you couldnt be a slut like them so dont worry. You have other friends. Great poem btw, lol.
baztam!!! xx -
Brenda made a valid point in the comment just above mine, Mara...many times it's issues of jealousy, and I know how hurtful that can be. though I hope that isn't the case and just a difference of where you and your friends might be at this time.
That baby has an awesome, sensitive and loving Mom. I hope it's all been going well for you, and I'll be in touch. Take good care.
Jo -
excellent way to vent..In my eyes maybe they are jealous..If they were true friends they would be by your side no matter what..That's how I look at it..God bless you and yours, Brenda
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Excellent!
I have not read from you in a while! I agree, if they do not care for you and your baby, they are not your real friends. My mema told me that in your lifetime, you can only count your true friends on one hand. I hope that it might be two, but so far it is true. Great poem. I hope that you will continue writing and have a wonderful day! -
great write
Excellent write, you have the right to get emotional and be upset if your friends are treating you different now you are pregnant.
My two best friends are pregnant and I treat them both the exact same.
You have expressed yourself brillantly with this write.
Stay safe and keep smiling, you have a healthy gorgeous baby on the way
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They are so right!You dont need people like that!If they cant be by your side through something so monumental as a pregnancy then they dont deserve to be considered friends at all.Just dont forget that you're doing the right thing by keeping your child safe and healthy.This poem was a fantastic way to show your anger and I loved the choice of title.
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I Like this. I think that a lot of people can relate to it. I'm sure most of us have been throigh that phase where our friendship isn't working. I think that you should tell them how you feel ( a letter might be the best way) and see what responce you get. If it's not one you like then move on with your life - it's hard but their not worth the trouble.
Good write though, the rhyme was ok, and it flowed well. I think that you've done a good job to show you anger/upset at them. Good write.
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With friends like that, who needs enemies, right? Screw 'em!
I used to hang out and get stoned with my 'friends'. When I quit, it was like no one cared and they never really did. Those people weren't my friends... they were someone who was as miserable as I was, people I could get high with. I realize now, after all these years, that they were never my friends and I'm glad I'm away from them. I see some of them now, strung out, homeless, heroin addicts begging for money... it's not pretty and I'm glad I left all of them.
You're better off without these people!
I hope you and your baby are well!
Elisa -
excellent
wow, this was amazing...when u think about it, u dont really need to worry about ur friends, u just gotta remember to keep urself healthy and happy and do everything u can to keep this baby safe
good job
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good poem
Well it sounds like you are better off without them, you need support at a time like this. Hang in there things will get better, a very good poem so full of emotion and sadness, keep up the great work!!!
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